साझाबासी साथीहरू,
साझा डट कम जस्तो प्रतिष्ठित वार्ता-मञ्चको स्थापना गरेकोमा यसका संस्थापक-सञ्चालकहरूप्रति कृतज्ञता ज्ञापन गर्दछु। म उहाँहरूलाई जस्तै बधाइ र कृतज्ञता साझाका सक्रिय साझेदार-सहभागीहरूलाई पनि टक्र्याउँछु।

तपाईँहरूलाई "यो धेरै अघि भएको कामका लागि यो मान्छे किन आज बधाइ भन्दैछ?" भन्ने लाग्यो होला। त्यस्तो लाग्नु स्वाभाविक हो। म यस बारेमा केही भनाइ राख्‍ने अनुमति पनि चाहन्छु।

करिब एक वर्ष अघि मैले साझाका बारेमा पहिलो पटक थाहा पाउँदा आसुतोषजीका कारण म त्यहाँ चिनिइसकेको रहेछु। दङ्ग परेँ। त्यसपछि म पनि हावाखान र बिसाउनका लागि नियमित रूपले साझाको चौतारीमा उपस्थित हुन थालेँ। म धेरै सूत्रहरूमा सहभागी नभए पनि धेरै सूत्रहरूको नियमित पाठक भएँ। साझाले नेपालीहरूका साझा भावना र चासोका कुराहरू अभिव्यक्त गर्ने साझाथलोका रूपमा राम्रो पहिचान बनायो। यो आफूलाई बुद्धिजीवी ठानिटोपल्ने नेपालीहरूको चर्चामा आइरहे विषय पनि भयो।

तर, म दुर्भाग्य नै भन्छु, साझाको त्यो प्रतिष्ठा अहिले निकै धमिलो भएको छ। साझाको महत्वपूर्ण ठाउँ गम्भीर वार्ताले भन्दा हल्कापन र कतिपय अवस्थामा त छिचरोपन र अश्लीलताले पनि ओगट्न थालेको छ। आपसी गालीगलौजको कर्कशता पनि बढेको छ। हिन्दी सिनेमाका नायिकाहरूको तस्वीर, लुकेर खिचिएका तस्वीर र भिडियोहरूको बिगबिगी आदिका कारण साझाको साझापनमा कमी आउन थालेको छ। म आफ्ना छोराछोरीलाई "नेपालीहरूका साझा मुद्धाहरू साझाको जनअदालतमा छन्, हेर है" भन्न चाहन्थेँ। अहिले म उनीहरूलाई त्यसो भन्न नसक्ने अवस्थामा पुगेको छु। सागद तपाईँहरू पनि सक्नुहुन्न होला।

हो, जीवनलाई चाहिनेभन्दा बढी गम्भीरताको बोझ बोकाउनु हुँदैन। यौन हाम्रो जीवनको महत्वपूर्ण पक्ष हो। मनोरञ्जन, हल्कापनमा जीवनका बोझहरूलाई पनि हलुका बनाउने तागत हुन्छ। त्यतिमात्र होइन, हाम्रो व्यक्तिगत जीवनबाट छिचरोपन र अश्लीलतालाई समेत निकालेर फ्याँक्न सम्भव नहोला। तर हामी सबैले गुड र गोबर चाहिँ छुट्याउनै पर्छ। गुड र गोबर दुवै कुरा महत्वपूर्ण छन्, तर एउटाको ठाउँमा अर्को पर्‍यो भने सत्यानाश हुन्छ।

(क्रमशः यसैपछि)

"Of course it is but make SURE no one hears it. It is your right to be vulgar but it is everyones right not be hear or see vulgar. get it?"
Moron I see you're one of those tyes that would copulate only when lights are off. he he AS YOU SAID ITS MY RIGHT TO BE VULGAR SO I AM. BUT YOU HAVE THE CHOICE OF COVERING YOUR EARS MORON, if you don't want to hear me go away. NO one is forcing you to listen to my profanity. AND YES MORON I DID GET IT. ha ha ha

"No one can restrict anyone from saying profanities or what ever, in a public forum. Can you imagine yourself, exposing yourself in public? It is not about "restricting" rather self-refraining."
If no one can restrict anyone from saying any profanity then WHAT THE FUK U BLABIN 'BOUT MORON ? Can I imagine myself exposing myself in public ? he he If I do thats my business. WHat the fuk is the difference between RESTRICTION AND SELF REFRAIN MORN ? SELF REFRAIN IS JUST ANOTHER FORM OF RESTRICTING YOURSELF. But your over achieving brain seems to think otherwise. he he

Dude you talk as if you are a family member of mine. he he DO I know you ? then what the fuk you sweatin' about ? Is my profanity causing you distress leading to loss of hair ? ha ha ha My frens know who I am...he he no need to be nice to prove myself. Whereas you seem to think otherwise.

ofcourse compliment, he seems very gentle and womanly not meaning gayish feri! you know , cant find men like him these days! i dont know what hes like for real but seeing his each and every post, hes like a cool nice person!

Bathroomcoffee this thread is about having some respect for posters in sajha. Can you show some respect for sajha by not blabbering profanities and "f" words here?

Show respect for what ? Do I personallyknow you ? NOPE Did Senior SHIVMORON win A Nobel Prize of some sort? NOPE. Then what the fuk should I be respecting him or you for that matter ? Huh !

Aznshawty, thanks for the backhanded compliment.:) You put a dagger in my tender heart, but I was given enough dose to put me to anesthesia. It was painless. he he! ;)

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Teri ma bajiya raate. I neither have mountains nor do I have any imlpied gorges. What I do have is a "Eiffel tower" and two "Atom bombs." I am not sure if it interests you or not. Hahahahaha. Poem ma ta yeuta jogini ko nai lekheko ho ;)


IndisGuise:)

"teri ma bajya" lmao

"What I do have is a "Eiffel tower" and two "Atom bombs."
SEXYYYYY!

your backhanded complimentor, lmao

"What I do have is a "Eiffel tower" and two "Atom bombs."

Atom bombs-ready to explode anytime ho ki kya ho? ewwwww that's gross yet funny lol....

la tour de eiffel is LOONG/TALL ke!

"What I do have is a "Eiffel tower" and two "Atom bombs." :) :)

"SEXYYYYY!"

Really :)

Mine? ;)
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Mokshya darlin', you sure it's gross? You know Eiffel tower is in the city of romance, don't you? LMAO hahahaha

Hamro field ma ta "gross" bhane ki gross income, liabilities yestai matra huncha :)
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:) :)

it is getting completely out of track..kurakani ekatira kumlo boki thimi tira?

timrai bhasha ma bhaneko ho... "Gross" income bhaneko, the two atom bombs and the Eiffel tower... Got it sexy : )

:O Look at what you guys have made out of Kedar Sharma's request :O :O .. i'm sure he's not very pleased. :O :O
indi are you even serious ? :O

I think we should refrain from further JPT kura. Aakansha le bhaneko kura sahi ho.

Kedar ji sanga mafi chahanchu. Kyarne hernu dai, kura yeuta bata suru garyo arko tira modincha. Huna ta Sajha ko ramailo nai yehi lagcha malai.

But I ABSOLUTELY concur regarding pornographic pictures and the likes. That is exactly why I do not keep my Sajha window open at work. I've saved myself from near embarrasment one two many times.
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Mokshya I got it :).
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Lemon, I am darn serious. :)
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Lu ta bhul chuk len den saab fachya. Hopen this settles it. :)

IndisGuise:)

Shiv,
Some comments are better to be ignored. No one can change the attitude especially when some one is either on drugs or has such high dose of ignorance, arrogance and stupidity even the best world healers cannot cure the disease :-)
Peace..

Ma pani mafi chahnchu. Didn't mean to talk about beautiful mountains with tiny[or big] flags on top. and didn't mean to make IndisGuise talk about his towers and bombs. Ma ta DC ma basne ho, i have washington Monument! :p whitehouse eka tira, capitol arko tira:P

i promise not to post no this tpic again, kedar ji, tapaile yestai kura nagara bhaneko, yestai kura bhayo. ja na hag bhaneko tei hagchan re manche haru le, k garnu:P

केदारजी,

अति साधु विचार ! साधुवाद यसको लागि ।

परन्तु 'दीप' ले माथि कतै भने जस्तै सञ्जालसञ्चालकद्वारा गर्ने पहरेदारीको काम त समय र आर्थिक कारणले असम्पादनिय भएको स्वीकार गर्नै पर्छ । बाँकी रह्यो, सदस्यहरुको आत्मानुशासन र सामुहिक पहरेदारी । अहिले समाप्तै भएको त होईन, तर प्राचिन साझामा त्यो प्रचुर मात्रामा थियो । त्यस युगमा सदस्यहरुको संख्या कम भएर पनि त्यसो भएको हुनसक्छ ।

"नेपाल लोकतन्त्र" नामक एक बन्द-सभाको सदस्य छु म । त्यहाँ आत्मानुशासन यति अधिक छ कि, वक्ताले बोलेको भन्दा नबोलेको कुराबाट उसको कुरा बुझ्नु पर्ने स्थिति हुन्छ अक्सर । साझा जस्तो खुल्ला र बेनामी सभा त्यस्तो समस्याबाट मुक्तिको लागि हो । तर जिन्दगीमा सबै कुराको तिरो हुने जस्तै खुल्ला र बेनामी सभाका फाईदाको तिरो पनि छ र त्यहि तिर्न स्वीकार गरेर यहाँ हाजिर छौ हामी सबै जना ।

तर के चाहिं निश्चित छ भने तपाईले प्रस्तुत गर्नु भएको जस्तो ध्यानाकर्षण र छलफलले सदस्यहरुलाई बढी आत्मानुशासित हुन र सामुहिक पहरेदारीको भावनालाई जगेर्ना गर्न बढी प्रेरित गर्नेछ ।

त्यसैले तपाईलाई एक पटक पुन: साधुवाद !

comment peut une fille pense de le tour de eiffel ne pas sexy?
how can a girl think of an eiffel towerand two bombs not sexy? huh?

धन्यवाद सहृदयी साथीहरू। बाथरुमकफी जी जस्ता व्यक्तिहरूसित त म गुनासो पनि गर्दिन, किनभने भाषा भनेको जसले जस्तो जानेको छ, उसले उस्तै बोल्ने हो। अब उहाँको मातृभाषामै भएका शब्दहरू नलेख्‍नुस्, नबोल्नुस् पनि त भन्न भएन नि।
तर यहाँ मास्तिर हेर्नुस् न, नेपेको गम्भीर टिप्पणी पछि Aznshawty ले के लेखेको? हिजोआज हामी नेपालमा हुलमा पसेर यसरी विषयान्तर गराउनेहरूलाई "भिजिलान्ते" भन्ने गर्छौँ।

kedar ji
malai nepali ma translate garna jhyauu lamcha tehi karan le ma angreji ma bhanchu.
mero bichar ma koshai le pani manche ko mukhh thunna sakidaina. joshlai j bhanan man lagcha tehi bhanchan. i am glad you brought this topic up and sajha members can continue to discuss this issue in a civil way, tara that does not refrain people from loggin in and saying wahatever they want. for people who
reason garera, logic dekhayera manche le kura manne bhako bhye ta bhaihalthiyo ni. hajur ra nepe ji jasta ekdui jana le 'yeso nagaram sathi' bhanne ra bujchan ra; maile hajur ko thread pade, khusi lagyo, aru le ni pade holan tara then again, they still have the right to commnet how they feel. may be sajha is the only place where they can come and vent out thier daily frustrations.
and you are right, manhce lai j aaucha, tehi ta bhanchan ni. neither sajha administration nor sajha members can accuse them or tell them waht is right and what is wrong and what kind of stuff they should stick to saying. sajha is public ni hiona; its open to everyone, young and old alike. if sajha was UN security council or board of trustees of a company, there would have been like-minded people here who would have a common objective. tara this is not the case yeha. its free and its open to all, all we can do is ignore and be on our ways.
i am relatively new yeha, so i dont' know what sjaha used to be like. ahile sajha derhaii chada bhayo re and tara maile dekhya anusar sajha ma uncivil ra chada manche bhanda civil discussions ruchaune manhce nai dherrai chan. ali ali haso majak bhaneko chutttai kura ho.