I'm so amazed by majority of Nepali people lifestyle in US. They have developed strong resistance to change, living the same old school life like in Nepal. They don't want to learn english, bully those who try to speak, don't want friends from other countries.. May be it is due to lack of education or negative attitude. They got lot of potential but they don't want to figure it out.they always live a cheap life even they got tonnes of money to spend. I don't know how to eliminate this, but it will definitely boost nepali community in US. Divorce guy lai jasto daal bhat khako maan napareko chai haina hai!!!

In America people have freedom of choice. Just because you think it's cool to have friends from other countries, it is not necessary that everyone feels the same way. Remember freedom of choice before you go yapping away about how only you know how to live a good life. Just make sure you don't make choices that don't make you happy and stop judging others who make their choices.

Sounds like you suffer from the same mentality. Complaining about "Nepalis" is the number one typical habit of a Nepali.

Maybe you are in the wrong circle. If you want to go out and mingle, why are you constraining to Nepali crowd only? Go out have friends outside of your comfort zone, you will find out that you start complaining less.

It's because they have no sense of class or a quality lifestyle. Those are mostly college dropouts DV lottery winners who cannot go beyond washing dishes in an Indian restaurant or some labor job in life. They totally ignore the importance of education and continue living a third grade lifestyle like that eunuch @liberalgorkhali.

I will say , staying within comfort zone.

I dont know what you are complaining here. Most of the people i know here are highly educated and people who came here on DV have good educational background with good to outstanding jobs they quit to come here.
You expect nepali's to be totally american in every way in life? Try to imitate american accent?
From my point of view i see nepali's buying expensive bags, watches, throngs of gold jewelrys, going to parties, extravagant clothes. Atleast thats what i see here where i am at. Maybe you havent been hanging around in good circles.

Timra sathi haru chain ali testai chan jasto cha hai. Aau na hami sanga hangout gara.

I said majority not all..but looking at the number of response, i think i'm correct.

You mean majority in your association?

@base: i'm glad i'm not one of them..but really want to help those guys..

This guy definitely is hanging around with wrong people, or havent seen the world yet !! Narrow minded piece of shit

i don't know what are you talking about , most new Nepalis go through hard time for few years but most Nepalis i have met who are 32+ are very successful in their career or business. median salary in the US is 26,695 and these folks are making anywhere from 80 k to 140k in IT, some are doctors, i can' t imagine how much they make. They eat and drive and live luxurious. I am amazed how life changes in the US. US is definitely the best country where anyone can come without any barriers of caste, creek, family history and compete and make money and live a very decent life. If you always blame US or blame the Nepalis in the US , it's just going to be more difficult to live your life. Here is why, no body can change the fact that you're a Nepali and other Nepalis are not going to change their life because of you, so you'll always leave in discomfort.
Since US does not discriminate on your family status to immigrate to US , you'll see Nepalis from remote placed of Nepal where there is lack of education western exposure too immigrate to the US. It's just the greatness of this great country. Nepal always concentrates development and good life around Kathmandu, because there is where the high caste Royals and political people live. It's a discrimination because the rest of the country is not treated in the same manner so the people coming from the villages do not know the ways of western world as you would coming from Kathmandu who is obsessed about western culture or English. But here is the fact, most people who come from villages and remote places of Nepal to work very hard and make lots of money and send their children to good schools. US is good, Nepalis in US is good.

Now there is another group of people who immigrate from Nepal.These are the people who grew up in Kathmandu and always though the world should revolve around them because they were born and raised in Kathmandu. They were given money and power over the innocent rest of the population outside of Kathmandu because their parents or forefathers were either Royals, Politicians, or working for one of the entities above helping them in looting Nepal and were able to make some money when it trickled down from the top. For eg: there are lots of families in kathmandu who think they are khandani but the matter of fact is their forefathers were good chakadibaaj with ranas so they were granted land and unethical gift from the dictator regime. Now as a 3rd of 4th generation, rather than feeling guilty and passionate towards the other Nepalis from whom they got you land and fortune from , they make fun of them.
Nepalis are not pakhyas , some may not know the best practice of the western world but that is ok because all immigrants go through the cultural shock when they come to the US. It is just the different way of living which takes some time to adjust to the norm.

Ho hajur testai cultural shock ma pareko manchey haru lai kasari help garna sakincha bhanera suggestions mageko, mailey uni harulai pakhey bhaneko haina. I understood one thing by looking at these comments, there is no way out. Suggestions bhanda criticism dherai paiyo.

Sman_23 aka supernova aka divorcegay, your mom is blowing me as I read her what you wrote you inbred faggot. She tells me you always were a weak and timid boy who everyone thought was gay. She once caught you making out with your neighbor's son who she used to bang. Now considering what a whore your mom is, she wanted to do a threesome with you and him and actually did one saturday night. Ever since then you dissappeared and hid in Jackson height and did odd jobs.

Now beat that you coward fag. Lfmao!

नाम चाही liberal कुरा चाही Constricted भयो गोर्खाली जी

@masoom: I agree with you dear. Not sure if you knew this but @liberalgorkhali raped an underaged girl many years ago and was almost beaten to death by an angry mob. They cut off his penis and he was in jail for 15 years. I heard he was ass raped over a million times by his fellow prisoners and was forced to give rim jobs everyday during his jail time. That's why he acts like a lunatic today. Poor bitch!

Lol. I like to see you getting worked up homie. I am sure you are getting your boyfriend excited.

@liberalgorkhali: Hey you lil fag slut, you bored or what?

Yeah bro. Bored has hell. Your mom doesn't suck well. She's been on her knees for last hour. If you could blow me I could send her home.

@liberalgorkhali: That's all you got, you fucking midget dick sucker? You just keep going back to the mom thing. May be you can't think of anything else because you had a busy day getting ass pounded by the negros in the hood. Get some rest honey!

I agree with khotokarma, sala pakhe haru Nepali culture ko testai maya lagcha vane, gayera Nepal nai base hunthyo ni. They don't wana even eat good, they eat 1 dollar mac chicken, everyday tehi daal bhaat tarkari, kaile restaurant ma khan janna, every job gar era ghanta hanchan, ghuman gayo vaneni sight seeing ra photo matra khichchan no activities paisa kahrcha huncha vanera, aaru ko page chai majjale kahnchan, aafno kehi didainan, aaru ko kura katchan, kasale kati paisa kaamchan, kasale ko keti pattachana, kasle green card banayo etc. I dun realaly hangout with Nepalese but i have very few light good frens.